What I did to my husband’s mistress

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What I did to my husband's mistress
What I did to my husband’s mistress

What I did to my husband’s mistress has to do with a story of how I treated a woman that was  having sexual relationship with my husband.I started by making her my friend and let her know how much I love her.

Then I began to tell her according to the Christian Bible that Jesus’ forgiveness is eternal, and anyone who accepts Jesus into their life is eligible for salvation. I told her If she want Jesus’ gift of salvation, there are a few things she have to commit to doing, like confessing her sins and asking for forgiveness. In general, she should also commit to being a good Christian and following the Bible so that she will be accepted into Heaven.


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Method 1 of What I did to my husband’s mistress
Method 1 of 2:
Following the Bible

I told her to  accept Jesus as the Son of God. I told that According to the Bible, all Christians who recognize Jesus as the Son of God are able to be saved. So if she truly believe that God and Jesus are one entity, created the universe and everything in it, and are kind and forgiving, she  is considered a Christian. In the Bible, only Christians are able to accept the gift of salvation.[1]
It’s important that she  do this, because without accepting Jesus into her life, she  can’t be considered a Christian.

I told her to read about Jesus’ death on the cross to understand salvation. In the Bible, God sends Jesus to Earth so that he can die and absolve humanity of original sin. Focus your reading on the books of Mark, Luke, and Matthew, each of which includes detailed stories about how Jesus died on the cross and his acceptance into Heaven by God. Each of these books tells her individual Apostle’s recollection of the life of Jesus, and will help her understand who Jesus is.[2]
This is considered Jesus’s first act of “salvation,” and acts as a reminder that no matter what your sins are, Jesus can forgive her if you’re truly sorry.

I told her to devote herself fully to God in everything she do. Live her life with the teachings of Jesus and God in mind, which will show that she is dedicated to having a holy life. Follow the Ten Commandments, which are instructions from God about how to be a good Christian. Do her best in work, and other activities to bring glory to God.[3]

I let her know that one way to show  devotion to God is by attending an organized church service. However, if she don’t attend church, she can still be saved through Jesus.

Be kind and respectful of other people. In every interaction, try to remain upbeat and positive, and think the best of other people. As a general rule, it’s best to treat others the way you want to be treated, and act through love. Even when someone does something that hurts her feelings or pride, remember that Jesus loved everyone, including the people who sentenced him to die on the cross.[4]
For example, if one of her friends is spreading a rumor about her, she should talk to them about what’s going on, rather than talking about them behind their back. Once she talk about the issue, she can forgive them just as Jesus forgives all sinners.
If you’re having a particularly hard time with a conflict, try asking heselo “What would Jesus do?” to remind yourself of the forgiveness that Jesus exhibits.


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Volunteer and serve your community to spread love and kindness.I told her that In her free time, she should do good deeds and help others without expecting anything in return, just as Jesus did in the Bible. Follow Jesus’ teachings about treating others as you would want to be treated by volunteering for those in need. These will help her maintain a positive outlook in life and can remind her how Jesus’ love can help everyone, no matter their situation in life.[5]
For example, she could volunteer weekly at a local soup kitchen or organize a community day with proceeds that benefit a local non-profit.
Avoid talking about religion while you’re volunteering unless you’re taking part in a special mission trip through a church. I also let her know that some people may not agree with her views, and that she can help them whether she agree with them or not.

Method 2 of What I did to my husband’s mistress
Method 2 of 2:
Asking for Salvation Through Prayer

I told her to confess her sins through prayer to communicate with God. When she  commit a sin, sit down and take time to think about what happened. Use the time to pray in whatever manner she prefer, and be honest about what happened and why it happened. For instance, you might say something like “Dear Father, I’ve been having a hard time controlling my temper lately, and I lashed out and yelled at a friend today. Truly, I’m worried about disappointing my friends, and I don’t want to hurt them anymore.”[6]
It’s important to be honest about the situation and your intentions. As long as she is  honest, she can ask for forgiveness.

Recite a prayer asking for forgiveness when she sin. Once she have prayed about her sin, she can ask for forgiveness. Recite a “sinner’s prayer” of her choice, or make up her own to be specific to her situation. Emphasize that she is   truly sorry for her actions, and think of ways that she will try harder to act in Jesus’ image.[7]
Sample Prayer for Forgiveness

If she sinned by speaking negatively about herself, you could say something like:

“Father, today I ask forgiveness for speaking negatively about myself. I don’t want to think of myself in an abusive way. Change my thoughts about myself and let me understand how you see me as your child. Help me adjust my habits so I speak hopefully and positively about myself and my life. In Jesus’ name.“


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I told her that it is necessary to pray for the salvation of non-believers. If her friends and family haven’t accepted Jesus as the Son of God, she can pray for their salvation too. Communicate with God about how much she love them, and think about all of the ways they have helped you grow closer to God. Ask for God’s help in showing them the beauty of salvation through the Lord.[8]
It’s okay to pray for the salvation of people who have a different religion from you. They don’t have to change their beliefs, but you can still pray for them.

I told her to make a plan to avoid temptation and sin. If she continue to commit the same sins over and over, try coming up with a way to remove yourself from the situation or avoid it altogether. Talk to your pastor, spiritual guide, or an adult who you trust about the situation. Finally, pray to Jesus to ask for guidance about how to resist temptation in your life.[9]
For example, if she tend to take the Lord’s name in vain when you’re mad, try to come up with other ways to verbally express your frustration. If you frequently say “Jesus Christ” or “Oh my God” you could say something like “Goodness Gracious” or “Sheesh!”

These are what I did to my husband’s mistress that changed her life completely. You too can do same 

God bless you.


From Susan.