How to show kindness as a Christian

How to show kindness as a Christian

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How to show kindness as a Christian

Dear friends,

Today, I want to share a heartfelt message with you about the power of kindness and how, as Christians, we can truly exemplify this virtue in our lives. In a world filled with division, turmoil, and negativity, the call to show kindness becomes more important than ever. As followers of Christ, we have a unique opportunity and responsibility to demonstrate His love through acts of kindness. In this message, we will explore the significance of kindness, its biblical foundation, and practical ways to incorporate it into our daily lives. By doing so, we can truly make a difference and bring others closer to the transformative power of Christ’s love.

Kindness is a quality that transcends cultural, social, and religious boundaries. It is a language understood by all and has the power to break down barriers, heal wounds, and restore hope. The Bible speaks extensively about the importance of kindness and its impact on both the giver and the receiver. In Ephesians 4:32, we are encouraged to “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” This verse emphasizes that kindness should be rooted in compassion and forgiveness, reflecting the unconditional love and mercy that God has shown us.

Another powerful scripture that highlights the significance of kindness is Galatians 5:22-23, which describes the fruit of the Spirit: “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things, there is no law.” Kindness is listed as one of the fruits of the Spirit, indicating that it is an essential characteristic of a Christian who is being transformed by the Holy Spirit. When we exhibit kindness, we are not only manifesting Christ’s nature but also allowing the Holy Spirit to work through us to touch the lives of others.

Jesus, our ultimate example of love and kindness, demonstrated these qualities throughout His earthly ministry. In Luke 6:27-31, Jesus teaches His disciples about love and kindness toward enemies, saying, “But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. If someone slaps you on one cheek, turn to them the other also. If someone takes your coat, do not withhold your shirt from them. Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. Do to others as you would have them do to you.” Jesus’s radical teachings challenge us to go beyond societal norms and extend kindness even to those who may not deserve it. By doing so, we reflect the extraordinary grace that God has shown us through Christ.

Kindness can take many forms, from simple acts of generosity and encouragement to profound acts of self-sacrifice. It can be as straightforward as offering a smile to a stranger, lending a helping hand to someone in need, or speaking words of affirmation and encouragement to a friend. It can also involve more significant acts, such as volunteering our time and resources to support charitable causes or standing up for justice and defending the marginalized. Whatever the form, the essence of kindness lies in genuine care and concern for others, treating them with respect and dignity.

In the parable of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37), Jesus illustrates the true meaning of kindness and challenges our preconceived notions of who our neighbor is. The story tells of a man who was brutally beaten and left half-dead on the side of the road. Two religious leaders passed by, but it was a Samaritan—a despised outsider—who stopped to help the wounded man. The Samaritan bandaged his wounds, took him to an inn, and even paid for his care. Jesus concludes the parable by asking, “Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?” The expert in the law replied, “The one who had mercy on him.” Jesus then instructs us, saying, “Go and do likewise.” This parable reminds us that kindness knows no boundaries and that we are called to love and show compassion to all, irrespective of their background, ethnicity, or social status.

As Christians, our acts of kindness should not be motivated by a desire for recognition or reward but rather by a genuine love for others. In Matthew 6:1-4, Jesus teaches us about the importance of sincerity in our acts of kindness: “Be careful not to practice your righteousness in front of others to be seen by them. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father in heaven. So, when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets, to be honored by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.” This passage reminds us to act with humility and to seek God’s approval rather than the applause of others.

In conclusion, dear friends, the world is in desperate need of kindness. As Christians, we have a profound opportunity to be beacons of light in the midst of darkness, to extend a helping hand to those in need, and to demonstrate the love of Christ through acts of kindness. By aligning our actions with the biblical principles of compassion, forgiveness, and selflessness, we can have a profound impact on the lives of others and create an environment that fosters healing, reconciliation, and transformation.

Let us remember the words of Jesus in Matthew 5:16, where He says, “In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” By showing kindness, we not only reflect the character of our Heavenly Father but also create opportunities to share the message of salvation and win souls for Christ. Our acts of kindness can serve as a bridge that connects others to the love and grace of Jesus.

May we, as followers of Christ, commit ourselves to a lifestyle of kindness, continuously seeking opportunities to bless and uplift those around us. Let us be intentional in our words and actions, offering love, compassion, and practical assistance to those who are hurting or in need. In doing so, we embody the love of Christ and fulfill the greatest commandment—to love God with all our hearts and to love our neighbors as ourselves.

May the Holy Spirit empower and guide us as we strive to show kindness as Christians, shining brightly in a world that so desperately needs the light of Christ’s love.

With love and blessings.


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Joy Chinonyerem

Joy Chinonyerem is an ardent follower of Christ who believes in Living the Christian Life according to the tenets set by Christ himself. She is passionate about Walking by Faith, as commanded by the scriptures and uses her blog, Walking By Faith Blog, to minister the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

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